Love I

~Love ~

Pronunciation: 'l&v
Function: noun
1 a (1) : strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties <maternal love for a child> (2) : attraction based on sexual desire : affection and tenderness felt by lovers (3) : affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests <love for his old schoolmates>
b : an assurance of love <give her my love>

What is Love…… is a question running in my head since last few months… Have I got an answer yet ?
Well.. strange it may sound – but then I had this question to find an answer from myself… And what better way then actually observing it and then falling in Love before realising…what it is and what it  is not ….
This sounds more like a First person’s experience…And more of my observence… This is more of luv that is about person falling in love with opposite sex.
At first its a feeling too much tempting unless you have actually stepped in and realised .. can u keep it .. can u let it go .. are you at stake of your freedom… Can you live without it …. just the very intriguing questions I have to which I have had answers.. mebbe its just my way of looking at it.. but then this is how it is.
Love is one that inspires freedom even to realise that it can make you smile. Love sure asks for time in lots of ways. Love and freedom … Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm…… Dont go together .. if you understand wht I mean unless you are willing to look into an aspect that you cant live without it.
Small instances from meeting till holding hands till getting kissed till …..  Is a sheer human tenderness that requires both the persons to be at comfort of each other… but is it really love.. nopes – not in my opinion after being through with all.. Now the question is what is love …?  Is it mere…  

Give me an honest opinion of what is love… !!
I want to hear it from all .. the ones who felt it – before I carry on with this
.. Love II

17 thoughts on “Love I

  1. Jitender March 29, 2006 / 5:32 pm

    Love is:
    1. the emotional outwash of millions of years of evolution that requires us to have a mate2. a damn good reason to be silly about everything3. waking up with a smile for no reason at all4. just watching and wondering and trying to get to the reason behind it all5. a chemical secretion in the brain that triggers hormones which in turn triggers chemicals in the brain6. a lot more many things beyond my meagre comprehension

  2. Vince March 29, 2006 / 8:35 pm

    I am an party animal but Germany is cold and clubs are dirty, overcowded and dark. I\’d love to party till mornign and jsut sleep on the sand afterwards.
    Btw, we just talked about your Indian festivals with the colors in school. ITs called Holi, right?
    How do you like to party? Btw, youre studying?

  3. Trouble March 30, 2006 / 6:01 am

    Awrite.. I\’m d one who\’s kinda truly, madely, deeply in luv..:D  so lemme try to express my opinion abt it.. although, it\’s kinda difficult to express it in words.. n the "luv" that im gonna talk abt here is the one that u feel for the opposite sex.. not the general on that u feel fr friends and family.. 🙂
    Luv is bliss.. smthing that delights and excites.. smthing that makes you laugh and cry..smthing  that makes u feel like doing ANYTHING fr yr beloved.. you\’d feel like givng all that u have and all that u can to him/her.. no expectations, no hesitations.. it\’s human to EXPECT… but, in love, u dont.. love has no accessories attached to it.. the feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, doubt cannot exist if love is there.. Love is a free bird 🙂
    Holding hands, kissing etc r just things that u tend to do out of love.. they r ways of showing yr love.. and i cant explain the kinda feeling u\’d get.. it\’s not just abt physical pleasure.. it\’s smthing else.. a feeling that cant be defined..
    🙂 i guess ive said enuf.. but that\’s EXACTLY wht i\’ve felt in love…:)

  4. Jitender March 30, 2006 / 5:39 pm

    The day count is the number of days I have been unemployed after my managers forced me to resign.

  5. Prithvi March 31, 2006 / 4:41 pm

    man ! it seems as if ur deeply in love with some one! good luck baalak !

  6. Enterthespacebar April 1, 2006 / 5:30 am

    hmm .. ohk old but .. newly raised topic . for me love .. is nothing !!! hahah !:-)!

  7. Prithvi April 1, 2006 / 5:10 pm

    u may drop by my space to view my next blog…

  8. DeGrinningGranny April 1, 2006 / 7:29 pm

    m not quite sure abt luv..really m not! but still might sound silly..still i feel..just my opinion..its more like..whn u see someone happy it makes u more happy thn they themselves r!! u\’d give up nethin just to see that smile on his/her face! and its nto abt possesin that particular person also..i mean u can b in luv even though u cant b together! endless luv!! ohh..i guess m bad at it! forget it..
    travellin alone since 15…hmm..ah well! m sure u hav a lot of knowledge to give away to others thn for sure.. :o) wish u loadsa luck in ethin u do..

  9. Me!also @ April 3, 2006 / 12:13 pm

    What s Love?
    Love is the worst pain you will experience, although it may be the most intense feeling of happiness, pain comes with it.
    Thank u for ur comment. Songs are not my thing! lol poetry is more my style, if ur bored check my other addy or add me for a chat/
    See ya. xxx

  10. Dude,where's my space? April 3, 2006 / 8:15 pm

    Love..for ur parents-thats just a deep thign thtas been there so long that it feels like a part of u..u can isolate it to define it..:-D
    LOve for some one of the opp sex (or the same!) its a truly differnt feelig..
    ITs liberating!
    but heres food for thought -do you fall in love with a person because of their flaws or their perfections??

  11. preyanca April 4, 2006 / 12:36 am

    love is conditionless. wen u just want to b there for that person and you want the other one to be there for you. but i have had some reely sad expereinces when my indipendence ws to be put at stake so i decided to let the love go. lol. but i know that things will better up.
    btw thanks for commenting on my blog. tc.

  12. Prithvi April 4, 2006 / 3:28 pm

    no updates buddy?  ok,come over and check out my latest rib-tickler !

  13. Enterthespacebar April 4, 2006 / 7:46 pm

    update lol
    yeah tht song was nice ..
    thnks !

  14. Trouble April 5, 2006 / 9:34 am

    so wen\’re u cming u with love II? 🙂

  15. sweeti's April 10, 2006 / 6:16 am

    My Free bird   …..yeah
    U know Love is an outing of feelings.
    Describe feelings is the most difficult thing….what do u feel…I know for sure when there is true love …U gonna feel it …and u still can describe it..TC

  16. Jyoti May 16, 2006 / 4:07 am

    Hi and thanx for visiting. I think way back in the 80 s when I was your age ,most of us were in love with the idea of being in love .And we all went about it with the experimental curiosity that u displayed.And we all convinced ourselves into beleiving in THE  REAL THING,all the while silencing niggling doubts.Love is that which survives these doubts ,the commitment to f and the acceptance of a partner with all faults and failings .Knowing oneself and being gentle with oneself ,and thus with whosoever is the person one is in love with.Being in love is a very special feeling and those moments may never be replicated again,but love gains a more enduring and vibrant hue.Love is what you decide to make of it .

  17. Ipshita December 1, 2006 / 10:15 am

    wow! such a sweet entry.
    in my opinion, it\’s a feeling that u want the other person to be happy, no matter what n i mean it, even if both r not living in the same place, town, city, or even in the same country!!  and well.. ya, i have experienced it tht way only.

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