Sex Vs. Commitment

Or lets simply call it Male vs Female brain.
Not that it is any more a fact, secret or hidden agenda – several books, scientific papers and endless results to prove it.

To put it this way I am a Male and these things always intrigue me to find out what, how and why. To others here is the ultimate result of what research has to add to all of this.

Although I personally am able to negotiate on many of those sectors which general Male brain has tendency:
“TV & Remote control addiction centre” – I killed this I haven’t got a TV 🙂
“Ironing skill synapse” – I am pretty good at Ironing and expert rather.

Rest all works fine in my side of the pre calculated  assumptions as per above figure and no wonders who so ever calculated about “Sex” was bloody right ! Just that men do not accept that out loud regardless they know it is like that.

Whatever, this is for a good laugh – so do as you like – laugh, share or ponder over it.

 

To die or to kill yourself – Easier option

We are born for a reason that we all have something to achieve in this life. We are born without a name, without any education and without any sense of good or bad. It is our own inner sense that makes us grow with regards to the outside world in which we socialize. A lot of out character revolves around who we want to be. Sometimes our parents influence us to be who we are and at others we have got inspirations from our surroundings(Friends or heroes) or the society.

What brings me here today is to share an experience from a friend who is in the middle of a job while noticing how life unfolds. She feels what she experiences is not just the dead people but how they decide to leave this life. She is a nurse in a hospital where she sees a lot of people in their old age deciding when to leave. There is a huge sense of misdoing or emotionally speaking “Karma” revelations cause a huge burden before they can leave. Dying is not easier when you are carrying a load of emotions from your life that needs to be emptied before you are allowed to leave.

Out of many such experiences one experience that counts towards all this is – A man in his late 80’s who knows he has lost this battle with life but to all sorrows is suffering because he wants to go and is unable to go. He expresses his sorrow of how he had two families at the same time without the other knowing of it. The tone in his voice is not melancholic but rather of a desperate need to put this out of his soul to someone who has got an ear to listen. She listens to the story of this man and soon after he closes his eyes – She knows his soul has departed and he has been liberated. In this life we get chances to commit a lot of things – some that hurt others while giving you a lot of joy and happiness but these alive stories of people on deathbed reveal only one thing. All the joys that you collect in this life for the misery and pain of others will come back to you in some shape or form unknown to accept that you committed things which need to be left behind.

Just to add on the above note, that was just one man but she has experiences of several such people who she has noticed and listened to before they give up this life. She says dying becomes a struggle once your body has given up and your soul is not letting it go. The worst of a kind is when none of your close ones want to come and visit you. Does this give you a scary feeling of what is being reflected here. Obviously the need to die is challenged and over ridden by your karmas of doings that you accumulated in this life.

One does tend to reach great heights but there is enough evil in reaching those great heights. This is always reflected in how you leave this planet. Not one but of many greats the one who closes his eyes in peace are the greatest of the souls. There are people on this planet that feel the need to kill themselves by abruptly stopping their lives is a way to get rid of their doings is not such a great idea either. You can make yourself force to die but your jar of endless negative karma is not left unanswered. It follows you regardless you kill yourself or you lie down on the deathbed. The sense of emotions here is more about respecting the life and not of expressing the need.

Tony Scott, the great film director decided to jump after the bridge in Los Angeles today. I don’t reckon this frees the soul but rather you left your soul in a jail that it will carry into the next phase of realm. We live here and we die here – the doings of our life are reflected in how we decide to expand or broaden our definition of living.

Base of all this and more is just a vision of how we all should emphasize on what we do and what implications it has on the lives that surround us. We must not be blinded for just ”Me” instead of us in this world. I give my respect to all these souls and spirits to be in peace and let the others rest in peace too. Shall we say – Peace, love and happiness prevail.

A man, his harem and his slaves.

A real true story that emerged quite unexpected in them most unimaginative way to cause the biggest surprise in the most emotional manner. Sitting at a meeting with two of my business clients who had a common connection. This is going to get very very interesting as we go. We finished our meeting and sittng at coffee. This common connection is “Mr G” based in Karinthia region of Austria.

Mr. G is a very intellectual, mind player, charming for the woman and self appraising till the eternity. He plays himself as a man who plays the truth in his stories, oh he is celebrity of his own in this small part of the world. One of my client who is lady in her 40’s(R) and the other one who is another lady in her late 20’s(A)on the coffee table realised that this common connection of their has more in common. The coversation opened in a manner about how do you know our Mr. G. Oh, A answered – I made his website, designed the book of his cover, he was my ex-bf until he got all his desired results with the business and beyond satisfied by me.  Now, to the surprise the R answered that he is my partner for past 8 years and still living the life at large in a relationship where he is more or less a partner for his needs. I am his partner for all his personal needs where he expects me to wash, iron and fulfill his needs. This was turning a catastrophe as the cards were just thrown but not played yet. A said – the reason to break up with him was not just that he used her but played the same game with five other woman. Two of which are common to A and yet, he has been quite good at its game.

Mr. G is in his 40’s, single, a character who is not willing to be dominated by anyone other than him. He is a man who only knows an art of getting his desired needs, whether it be work, official or personal. He plays a game of love to not one but to all at the same time. Now we were unearthing the real truth. This man has written his book saying he talks about the truth, he did a project bringing pictures of a regional mountain – every day a picture from a same spot all year long selling unedited loudly publising his real truth of staight from the camera with no editting, has a bigger truth. He read his unpublished book to A that he has a book where he writes how he uses his woman for the satisfaction of needs, desire and personal satisfactions. How in the world can this one man be playing with nine woman that we have named, spoken on the phone in front of each other and have the same story.

What Mr. G writes is a truth. He unearths the truth and nothing else. At this time he has come as a true man but he has shown his character of how strong charismatic charm he plays. He knows the biggest, the most powerful females in this region and plays with all for his needs. Now, at this time R is heart broken and in a state that some one has pulled the earth under her feet. She got divorced from her husband 8years ago hoping that this man will be stong enough to support her in the toughest of the times. For all this time she is speechless but to confirm that A is not lying, she phoned another of her friend who Mr G has played same game in the name of love (lets call her O) for two years. Now this makes three affairs all in parallel. R is involved in since 8years, A for 6 months and O for 2years. But wait this is not ending here, O has one more common lady who has been stamped as his love. Can this get any more exciting ?

In the book that Mr. G is written he has used all these characters in full details explaining how he uses them in real life. How in the name of love he has obtained which he would not have managed and to unleash the biggest surprise is that he kills the woman in the end. Now we do not know how real this is going to get. If this Mr. G who in real life is not just a liar (Icing on the cake of his real truth) he is playing a bigger game in his brain.

What shall these woman do ! This is going to be the biggest story in future we can put these characters together to unleash this Mr G who is not a man but a psychopath. He has no emotions for anyone besides he lives to fulfill everything in his life with the support of his slaves. He writes in his book, that these stupid naive woman do not know how he  his playing with them. He is expert in the world of his own with no one able to see beyond his eyes. Unseen but the thread has been opened with this one business meeting that has left a can of worms opened.

Broken, emotionally overchallenged and what shall be the next. Even sharing the emails of Mr G between R and A it appears he uses the same text, same sms and his same forward pattern to attract these woman day and night in his communication. Shall we leave it here for the moment, we have bigger truth than the truth of a man himself.